Essential Checklist for Planning Your Guo Da Li Ceremony in Singapore
The Guo Da Li ceremony is a profound tradition in Chinese weddings, symbolising the formal exchange of gifts and goodwill between the families of the bride and groom. If you are interested in the cultural significance of this ceremony, we have demystified it all for you in this article.
If you're planning to honour this custom as you tie the knot in Singapore, this checklist will guide you through all the necessary preparations to ensure a smooth and culturally respectful ceremony.
1. Select an Auspicious Date
Consult with a lunar calendar or a Feng Shui master to pick an auspicious date for your Guo Da Li. The timing of this event is crucial, as it is believed to affect the harmony and prosperity of the union.
If you don't need to consult a Feng Shui master, you can hold the Guo Da Li anytime between 1 month to 3 months before your wedding.
2. Prepare the Guest List
Typically, the Guo Da Li involves key family members from both the bride’s and the groom’s sides. Ensure you have a list of all family members who should be present, considering that this ceremony is usually a private affair involving close relatives.
Note that it takes place at the bride's home, so consider the number of people that the house can accommodate.
3. Decide on the Gifts
The core of the Guo Da Li is the gift exchange, and the items can vary depending on your dialect group (Hokkien, Cantonese, Teochew, etc.). Click here for the full list of all the items you need for Guo Da Li.
Pro tip: Consult both sets of parents on what gifts they want. Be as detailed as possible, including the minimum dowry amount that the bride's family expects.
4. Choose the Right Vendors
You may need vendors for items like the betrothal gift baskets, traditional cakes, and custom decorations. Look for vendors who specialize in wedding items for Chinese ceremonies, as they will provide valuable guidance and authentic products.
5. Arrange for Return Gifts
The bride’s family traditionally prepares return gifts to symbolize their blessings and goodwill. This often includes a portion of the gifts received, symbolizing the sharing of blessings, and other items like towels or even jewelry for the groom.
6. Dress Appropriately
Traditionally, both the bride and groom dress in formal, often traditional, attire. Confirm the expected dress code with your families, and consider wearing something that honors tradition, such as Qun Kwa for the bride and Ma Kwa for the groom.
BONUS TIP: Beware of the do's and don'ts of the Guo Da Li traditions, and you'll be all good to go!
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