The Ultimate Guide to Writing Your Wedding Vows in Singapore

Your wedding vows are more than just words. They’re the centrepiece of your love story. You’ve built a life together, layer by layer, so it’s only natural to wonder how to fit all that history, emotion, and promise into a few precious minutes.

If you’re feeling stuck, you’re not alone. When I think back to writing my own wedding vows, the hardest part was simply figuring out how to start. Back then, there was no ChatGPT to help break through writer’s block.

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Today, AI assistants like Your Wedding Quill can take your stories (and even your Instagram profile!) and turn them into heartfelt vows and speeches, which you can refine until they sound exactly like “you.”

Whether you write your vows entirely yourself or get a little help along the way, the key is to let your words reflect who you are as a couple. Here are three tips to guide you through the process.

1. The PAST: Dive Into Your Love Story

Begin your vows by delving into the past, reminiscing about your unique love story.

How did you meet? Was it love at first sight?
What do you love most about your partner?
What challenges did you have to overcome?
What makes your relationship unique?

Incorporating these elements provides a nostalgic foundation that connects your journey towards marriage.

2. The Present: Express Your Feelings Today at the Altar

Describe your feelings of joy, excitement, and deep love you experience as you stand together, about to be declared as man and wife.

How did you know that he/she was “the one”?
When did you know that he/she is the “love of your life”?
How are you feeling to be marrying them today?

3. The Future: Make Promises for a Lifetime

Look ahead and express your vision for the future as you begin a new chapter together. Highlight the commitments you make to ensure a lasting and loving partnership.

What kind of future together do you envision?
What are some hopes and dreams you have?
How will you support each other’s growth?
What are some things you promise to always do for your partner?

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