Who to Thank in Your Wedding Speech and What to Say at Your Singapore Banquet

Don't forget to prepare your wedding speech! There will be many people delivering speeches (here's a guide on who says what), but at the centre of attention is you + your partner!

Your first address to family and friends is a great opportunity to express gratitude to those who made your day special.

Here’s a comprehensive guide on who to thank in your wedding speech and what to say to ensure your gratitude resonates with sincerity and warmth.

1. Thank Your Guests

Start by thanking all your guests for attending and making the day special with their presence. Show appreciation for their support and love.

Example:

"Good evening, everyone! We are so grateful to each of you for being here today. Your presence has truly made our day special, and we couldn’t be happier to celebrate this moment with all of you."

2. Thank Your Parents

Your parents have played an integral role in your journey. Express your gratitude for their unwavering support, guidance, and love throughout your life and wedding preparations. Remember to address your new in-laws too!

Example:

"To our wonderful parents, thank you for your endless love and support. You have been our pillars of strength and have shaped us into the people we are today. We are forever grateful for everything you’ve done."

3. Thank the Bridal Party

Recognize the bridesmaids, groomsmen, and other members of the bridal party who have been there for you during the planning process and on the big day. Even if you don't have a bridal party, you surely have helpers for things like running the tea ceremony, emcee-ing, and/or fluff your dress. Their help and friendship deserve a special mention.

Example:

"To our amazing bridal party, thank you for standing by our side today and throughout the planning process. Your support, laughter, and love have meant the world to us."

4. Thank Key Contributors

Don’t forget to mention the individuals and vendors who contributed significantly to making your wedding day a success. This includes your solemniser, wedding planners, photographers, caterers, and any friends or family who took on specific roles.

Example:

"We would also like to extend our heartfelt thanks to our incredible wedding planner, [Name], our talented photographer, [Name], and our fantastic caterer, [Name]. Your hard work and dedication made today unforgettable."

5. Share a Special Moment

Include a personal anecdote or special moment from the day or your relationship. This adds a personal touch and can make your speech more engaging and memorable.

Example:

"One moment we will always treasure is when [specific moment]. It reminded us of why we chose each other and how blessed we are to share our lives with such wonderful friends and family."

6. Thank YOUR PARTNER!

Don't forget the most important player in the wedding - your spouse! Express your love and gratitude for your partner. This part of the speech should be heartfelt and sincere, reflecting the love and commitment you share.

Example:

"To my wonderful [husband/wife], thank you for being my rock and my best friend. I am so excited to spend the rest of my life with you, creating beautiful memories together."

7. Conclude with a Toast

End your speech on a high note with a toast. This brings everyone together and sets a celebratory tone for the rest of the evening.

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